Here’s a fact: Anyone with a credit card can stroll into
Malls and emerge looking like Fashion with a capital F. But here’s
another one: Very few people—credit cards or not—can be considered women of
genuine style.
Yes, draping yourself in the coolest labels and
piling on “It” items might
give you a boost of instant sartorial gratification, but in six months those
pieces will be obsolete, you’ll be out a month’s rent, and you’ll feel
compelled to keep up with the cycle of buying the next round of coveted pieces.
Exhausting! Still, so many women seem to be falling victim to that exact cycle.
Blame it on today’s street style-obsessed world, but all we have to do today is take a quick peek at Pinterest, give Instagram a quick scroll, or visit any one of the gazillion personal style blogs that exist, and we’ll be inundated with up-to-the-minute images of Céline, Proenza Schouler, Givenchy, Chanel, and other top-level labels, which can often create a bit of FOMO. And that, in turn, can result in scores of young women looking, well, exactly like everyone else and going broke in the process.
Then, however, there are those images you’ll see on blogs or street style sites of women who look so amazingly chic, cool, or interesting who aren’t covered in head-to-toe labels, but rather know how to take nondescript pieces and style them in such a way that their whole look is completely enviable and covetable.
These, friends, are the truly stylish women from whom we should aim to take our fashion inspiration. To that end, we’ve compiled the 7 habits of highly stylish people to get you started.
Blame it on today’s street style-obsessed world, but all we have to do today is take a quick peek at Pinterest, give Instagram a quick scroll, or visit any one of the gazillion personal style blogs that exist, and we’ll be inundated with up-to-the-minute images of Céline, Proenza Schouler, Givenchy, Chanel, and other top-level labels, which can often create a bit of FOMO. And that, in turn, can result in scores of young women looking, well, exactly like everyone else and going broke in the process.
Then, however, there are those images you’ll see on blogs or street style sites of women who look so amazingly chic, cool, or interesting who aren’t covered in head-to-toe labels, but rather know how to take nondescript pieces and style them in such a way that their whole look is completely enviable and covetable.
These, friends, are the truly stylish women from whom we should aim to take our fashion inspiration. To that end, we’ve compiled the 7 habits of highly stylish people to get you started.
1. They don’t surf street style blogs and copy exactly what they see, label for label.
In this day and age, street style photos are a bona fide source of fashion inspiration. In fact, we spend a pretty hefty portion of our day stalking Pinterest and culling various galleries to offer our readers (and ourselves) great ideas when it comes to seasonal outfits.
In this day and age, street style photos are a bona fide source of fashion inspiration. In fact, we spend a pretty hefty portion of our day stalking Pinterest and culling various galleries to offer our readers (and ourselves) great ideas when it comes to seasonal outfits.
However, just because you saw Marian Rivera, Nadine Ilustre, or Heart Evangelista draped
in Versace, Chanel,
or D&G—or because you’ll be in New York during Fashion Week and want to get snapped by Phil Oh—isn’t a great reason to go out and splurge on the same stuff.
Don’t forget: Several big street-fashion players, editors,
and bloggers get sent designer
stuff for free to entice folks like us to go out and buy it. Others are, well,
richer than us and it’s their day job to flit around the world in
the latest designer clothes, which is fun to admire but
not necessarily healthy to emulate.
That’s why truly stylish girls will see a look they’re drawn to
and seek out lesser-priced pieces that have the same vibe. Plenty of
affordable stores and sites offer items that feature similar aspects to
designer pieces.
2. They aren’t afraid of any store—and
can find something almost anywhere.
Legitimately stylish women will troll any—and we mean any—store with zero snob factor, yet they manage to stay true to their aesthetic.
Legitimately stylish women will troll any—and we mean any—store with zero snob factor, yet they manage to stay true to their aesthetic.
For example, she won’t be afraid to pop into a cheesy-seeming teen
store at the mall, but that doesn’t mean she’ll leave with the same things her 12-year-old
cousin would. Same goes for fast-fashion haunts like Forever 21, dusty old
thrift stores (ukay-ukay), and
off-price havens like the Department Stores, 268 Malls and Divisoria, which are
consistently packed with great stuff at non-sucker prices.
3. They know how to style themselves according
to their own taste.
Isn’t it always the case that the most stylish girls will say “This blouse? It’s from Ukay-ukay, like, 100 years ago” and actually mean it?
Isn’t it always the case that the most stylish girls will say “This blouse? It’s from Ukay-ukay, like, 100 years ago” and actually mean it?
Yeah, the blouse itself is probably pretty cool, but it’s really
the way she styled it—maybe she tucked into great-fitting jeans, unbuttoned one
extra button, rolled up the sleeves, and added a killer pair of statement
earrings—that made everyone comments on it.
4. They always look a littles less “done” than
everyone else.
Highly stylish people are often in the habit of always appearing a teeny tiny bit too cool for every scenario they’re in.
Highly stylish people are often in the habit of always appearing a teeny tiny bit too cool for every scenario they’re in.
This might mean wearing
a pair of slip-on sneakers when
every other girl is teetering on sky-high heels, wearing a chic skinny pantsuit
when every other woman is rocking glittery party dresses, or chopping her hair
into a messy bob when everyone else has long beach waves. Small things that
always make them look a little less “done.”
5. They understand labels don’t make them
cooler.
It sounds cliché, but the most stylish women—and men, for that matter—in the world are ones who have confidence, and who know they don’t need the 2,000PHP sweatshirt or 20,000PHP handbag to make themselves appear cool.
It sounds cliché, but the most stylish women—and men, for that matter—in the world are ones who have confidence, and who know they don’t need the 2,000PHP sweatshirt or 20,000PHP handbag to make themselves appear cool.
These folks can step out in a faded grey tee and jeans and still
look like the coolest person in the room all because they have confidence (okay
fine, and probably a killer haircut, too.)
6. They aren’t slaves to fashion.
Some of the most stylish people are able to have fun with fashion and follow trends without looking like a slave. If you don’t like a trend—even if every blogger under the sun is wearing it—don’t buy into it. It’s that simple.
Some of the most stylish people are able to have fun with fashion and follow trends without looking like a slave. If you don’t like a trend—even if every blogger under the sun is wearing it—don’t buy into it. It’s that simple.
7. They don’t dress to be considered stylish.
Before blogs, before street style, and before Fashion Week became a three-ring circus that only matters for those who have the most attention-grabbing clothing, young women dressed for themselves, their lifestyle, and what looked good on them.
Before blogs, before street style, and before Fashion Week became a three-ring circus that only matters for those who have the most attention-grabbing clothing, young women dressed for themselves, their lifestyle, and what looked good on them.
It doesn’t matter if those heels are Alexander Wang—if
you can’t walk in them, you won’t be considered stylish. Throw on a pair of
comfortable ankle boots with that mini dress, you’ll look much cooler.
